Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Offbeat & Unique Gifts For Everyone At ModernTribe.com

We know not all your friends and family are Jewish. That's why we stock dozens of fun, unique, and offbeat gifts for everyone, most of which are under $12! Here are some highlights:

For tea drinkers on the go the Tea Lover’s Eco Cup is an elegant to-go cup decorated with traditional teacup patterns. Included is a cute silicone teapot hook to hold your teabag string. $10.

Tea is more fun with the Tea Duckie! A floating tea infuser is a mini version of the childhood toy favorite. $10.

I have no idea what started the Babushka trend, but they are everywhere, and aren't they cute? We've got M Cups Babushka Measuring Cups that nest inside each other and split apart to create six measuring cups from 1/4 c to 1 full cup. The matching set of five M Spoons also nest inside each other. Doll up your kitchen with a little Russian folklore. $12 and $7.

One of hottest sellers this season is the Tunes For Two Heart Headphone Splitter. With their romantic heart shapes, it is the perfect give for your sweetheart. $12.

Excellent for adults who haven't grown out of the rock star dream, the Drumstick Pencils indulge their fantasy. Great for musical kids too! $8.

An easy gift to give anyone who likes to snack are these adorable Yummy Pockets. In Pizza, Taco, Cookie, Potato Chips, Hot Dog, and Peanut Butter & Jelly there's one to fit nearly everyone's midnight craving.

Even your Jewish friends will want these non-Jewish gifts  they're so fab ;)

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Tuesday Nov 30 is Buy Israel Day!

Check out the cool Israeli designed goods we have on ModernTribe.com and get 20% off today with code BUYISRAEL for "Buy Israel Day" -- November 30th, 2010.

Below is from "Buy Israel Goods"

On Tuesday, November 30, anti-Israel activists in New York City plan to demonstrate and call for boycotts of stores that sell Israeli products. Their specific target is a store that carries Ahava goods, but this action in New York is just one of many. Boycotters have been energetically lobbying other stores across the country to drop Israeli products, from local co-ops to Costco and Trader Joe's.

The pro-Israel, pro-peace community urges you to join a counter campaign. We are making November 30 a BIG (Buy Israeli Goods) Day. Let us show anyone that calls for boycotts of even one or two stores, that it will always be met with a much larger counter-movement to buy Israeli goods.

The very date, November 30th, should encourage us. It comes the day after the 53rd anniversary of the UN Partition Resolution when the effort, against all odds, to restore the Jewish State was endorsed and recognized by the international community. It also comes just as Hannukah is approaching when we celebrate the Maccabees who also restored Jewish independence, and who were a few who triumphed over the many. We can do the same, and shine a light on Israel for all people of good will.

When you go holiday shopping, choose presents from the wonderful array of Israeli-made items, from fine Israeli wines to the high quality Ahava beauty products, Israeli jewelry, shoes and clothing lines, and of course. Consider foods such as Sabra or Tribe hummus and Osem cookies to grace your holiday party.

On November 30th, go shopping for Israel no matter where you live. Buy for Israel. Buy for peace. Be a big part of this BIG (Buy Israeli Goods) Day.

For more information, visit this website: www.BuyIsraelGoods.org --- The site includes a locator so that you can find stores in your area that carry Israeli products. The BIG campaign is a partnership between StandWithUs and the America-Israel Chambers of Commerce and like-minded organizations.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Hanukkah Gifts For Kids -- 2010 Hanukkah Gift Guide

Adam Sandler summed up Hanukkah the best when he belted out “Instead of one day of presents, we have eight crazy nights.”  Any one of these presents will guarantee that your Jewish kid is not wishing for a Christmas tree:

While one little piggy went to market and another stayed home, this piggy named Baxter decided he wanted to become Kosher. Now that’s certainly a story to get tickled over. The Kosher Piggy Gift Set ($39.00) includes the hardcover copy of Baxter, the Pig Who Wanted to Be Kosher, signed by author Laurel Snyder; Baxter Juggling Kosher Pickles T-Shirt; and a Baxter Shabbat coloring page

Shalom Sesame T-Shirts ($26.00) are the perfect gift for any tot that’s a triple threat - Funny, Cute and Jewish. Choose between Cookie Monster "Nosh", Oscar The Grouch "Oy Vey", Elmo "Mini Mensch", and Zoe "B is For Bubelah,"

Even if on the 6th night you give your child a pair of socks, a pack of Hanukkah Jewish Silly Bands ($5.95 for 24 100% silicone bands that are well-made unlike others we have seen) will insure that it is “fun-akkah.”

Visit ModernTribe for Hanukkah gifts for all the Miracles in your life.

Friday, November 19, 2010

20 For 20 : 20% of Music CD Sales Goes to Atlanta Jewish Music Festival

20 For 20: For the next 20 days, now through the end of Hanukkah, December 9th, 20% of ModernTribe.com's music CD sales goes to Atlanta Jewish Music Festival (AJMF).

Atlanta Jewish Music Festival 20 for 20

Plus, you can donate to AJMF through ModernTribe: 100% of proceeds goes to support the new and totally awesome Atlanta Jewish Music Festival.

So -- try some new music! and help bring Atlanta the festival our fabulous city deserves.

ABOUT AJMF
Lead by ModernTribe friend Russell Gottschalk and launched last year with bands: 4th Ward Afro-Klemzer Orchestra, Girls In Trouble, DeLeon, and Moshav, the burgeoning Atlanta Jewish Music Festival (AJMF) is on its way to rock Atlanta with progressive contemporary Jewish music. Our next festival is May 19-21!

Full disclosure: I'm on the steering committee for AJMF.

So, try some new -- great -- music + help bring AJMF -- coming MAY 19-21 2011 -- with an $18 --  $36 -- $54 donation. Shop Now!

Sunday, November 14, 2010

My Favorite New Menorahs -- 2010 Hanukkah Gift Guide

Taking an innovative approach to Hanukkah doesn’t mean downloading a menorah-lighting-app to your iPhone. Keep tradition burning with these modern interpretations of menorahs for your home:

Areaware improves an ancient design by integrating a tray to their Wrought Iron Menorah ($150) that catches the candle drippings. I love this menorah because the lines are sleek, simple and modern but the heaftiness makes it feel like a barn-shed tool in your hand. Very manly.

Peacocks are a hot motif this year. Jonathan Adler’s Peacock Menorah ($120) will give you something to strut about: either you’ve given the best gift at the party or you’ve got the finest menorah on the block. (Pictured with our candles.)

Designed in Israel, handmade from resin in a Bulgarian fair-trade women's work group, the Funky Menorah by Lalo Treasures ($98) will fill all eight crazy nights with sparkle and flair.

Upgrade your menorah lighting experience. Use modern, tubular, drip-less candles like these above that we gifted to Jonathan Adler ($14). Lose the free matches from the diner, light up with a bang with Pistolight by Sooda Mayer ($10) or go old style but in style with Jonathan Adler's Pipe Match Holder and Strike!

See our entire 2010 Hanukkah Gift Guide for unique Hanukkah gifts for everyone. Even your non-Jewish friends will want this stuff it's so fab.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Hanukkah Gifts For Dad -- 2010 Hanukkah Gift Guide

hebrew_beer_pint_glassesFor Hanukkah this year we're focusing on the rebel in the family . . . Dear Old Dad. While he may seem to be under Mom's thumb, deep down he has a heart of a Maccabee, the Jewish army whose victorious revolt led to the Festival of Lights.


Whether it's the first night or the last, the Hammer Bottle Opener ($10) and Union of Jewish Handymen T-Shirt ($24.95) are perfect gifts to honor Dad's hammer like ways. Add a Set of 4 He'Brew Beer Pint Glasses ($26.95) to keep smashing the stereotype that Jews don’t drink.


Artori Design Studio's Action Bookends ($46) will certainly recognize Pop's 007 style. Of course, if Dad is really the kind of guy who likes to run with scissors, then the Butter Dish by Jonathan Adler ($58) will let him dine with his shoe on the table.


With a pair of Sterling Half-Shekel Cufflinks ($99) and a Yiddish Proverb Money Clip ($16.99) in his pocket, your dad will be as gangster as Arnold Rothstein as he slips you some gambling gelt to play No Limit Texas Dreidel.

Visit ModernTribe for Hanukkah gifts for all the miracles in your life.

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

The Chicken Who Paid the Price

My mind was racing. How could it not? I was swinging a live chicken over my head while saying,

“This is my exchange, this is my substitute, this is my atonement. This hen will go to its death, while I will enter and proceed to a good long life and to peace.” 
 
I don’t normally sacrifice chickens, but this year on Yom Kippur I answered yes to my friend Joel’s Kapparot invitation on Facebook. In fact, I'm an atheist, a realist, a scientist: I don't believe in mystical transference, or divine redemption, none of it! So why was I about to go all ancient Jew on this hen from Joel’s backyard chicken coop in Atlanta? The simple answer is that I love new experiences and am always up for an adventure, but of course there was more. As I reflected over the past year I found myself struggling with atonement. My biggest sin was against myself: I hadn’t taken good care of my body and health and it affects me more and more, especially with my 40th birthday looming. I've made promises to myself to do better, but each year I failed miserably. This year, I was hoping that the Kapparot ritual would help me really feel the sadness and harm I have been inflicting on myself (and potentially my family) by not taking care of my health.

Earlier, as the three of us prepared the ritual space in Joel's backyard, we'd chatted nervously about what we were about to do. I'd never come close to experiencing animal slaughter; Joel had slayed an injured chicken once; Webb, my husband, had hunted doves as a teenager. Mostly, we'd remained happily unaware that animals die every day to feed our meat-eating habits. Books and movies such as Food, Inc. were making us face the truth: not only are most factory animal's deaths inhumane, but their lives are too. We knew one thing for sure: this hen had a good life.

“Cluck!” went the hen as I passed her to Webb and held the iPhone so he could recite the prayer and swing the bird simultaneously. Suddenly, I felt panicked. "Wait!" I said, "I want to say something else, give me the bird." I felt sad, my chest tightening, I wanted to cry. The traditional ritual wasn't enough. This bird was going to die for MY sins. I had to do more than just confess that I didn’t go to the gym. I needed to say more, at least acknowledge that I intended to change and not repeat the same damn mistakes over and over. I held the hen and looked into its eyes: "Hen, you are going to die today for my sins. I promise that your death will not be in vain. I promise to be better this year and take better care of my health. I promise to you, I will do better." She blinked, looking up at me blankly. I held this thought and feeling in my heart. "I will do better. Thank you, hen!"

Taking my cue, the guys followed my lead and made their own promises to the hen. Then it was time for slaughter. My heart was pounding. I turned away. When I looked again, the head was sliced completely off and lay on the ground. Joel continued to hold the headless body upside down, head-less wings flapping and clucking -- clucking! We all breathed deeply, somewhat in shock at what we'd just done and Webb handed each of us a feather. I kept repeating to myself: "I will not forget this hen, I will not forget this hen."

It’s been one week since we performed the Kapparot ritual on Yom Kippur and I’ve gone running twice. I also actually called the doctor about my lab results instead of just settling for the nurse's call last week. Now that we've experienced the death of our food, up close and personal, my husband and I are considering how we eat meat and how often we eat meat. While this isn’t exactly a transformation of reality television proportions, I am changing. It’s not easy, but I will keep the commitment I made to that bird.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Temporary Booth : Temporary Life

I just watched G-d Cast's wonderful Sukkot video (below) and now have a new understanding of Sukkot.

The video is about King Solomon's Ecclesiastes, which is read during Sukkot. Starting with the downer of, "all is vanity," Solomon writes of all the things he's "had" in life: riches, knowledge, and achievement. He finds them useless and meaningless because he's gonna die, just like any fool, and leave it all behind to some shmo who outlives him.

In the end, Solomon finds meaning because he believes all is from G-d and tells us to "Fear G-d."

No matter his conclusion, it's his pathway that fascinates me. It's his understanding of mortality that motivates Solomon's struggle to find meaning. "The wise man has eyes in his head, while the fool walks in the darkness; but... the same fate overtakes them both."

All of us are challenged to find meaning in the face of mortality. 

Sometimes the losses we experience, which make us re-evaluate our lives and search for meaning, end up being blessings. Or let me say that differently: it is up to us to find the meaning in the losses we experience.

For Sukkot we build our hut, rejoice in it, and then tear it down. As is life.


Thursday, September 2, 2010

Announcing: Relaunch of Jewish Woman Mag.com + My New Column!

Jewish Woman Magazine's website is brand new and improved. American Jewish women need a virtual place to congregate. It is my hope that all of us can build this space for Jewish women everywhere to read and share information relevant to today's Jewish living. I'm very proud to present my first contribution: an entry to a column I'll be writing called:

Identity by Design
Expressing Jewish Identity Through Judaica
By Jennie Rivlin Roberts

Though many of us talk about developing a Jewish identity, what does that really mean? To me, Jewish identity includes what we do Jewishly, what we believe, how we practice Judaism in our homes and with our families, and to what Jewish organizations we belong. Jewish identity is also expressed to ourselves and to others by what we wear, what we read, whether we have Judaica in our homes and what these pieces look like. It can even mean whether we choose to give a Jewish gift for a bar or bat mitzvah or a wedding. In this space in the months to come, I will introduce you to some of the artists and designers who create Judaica and Jewish gifts that speak to us and help us express and build our own Jewish identities, and proudly share them with the world.

Meet Aimee Golant: Metalsmith

Aimee Golant is a sixth generation metalsmith who works out of San Francisco, Calif. She has won many honors: The Jewish Museum of New York acquired one of her evocative mezuzahs for its permanent collection and her Barbed Wire Mezuzah travelled into space on the Space Shuttles Columbia and Atlantis. Aimee has created Judaica to benefit Darfur, Sharsheret, the Paper Clips Project, and more. She teaches at several educational institutions in San Francisco, where she lives with her husband and son.

Read the interview on Jewish Woman Magazine >>

Friday, June 11, 2010

Love These Tree of Life Plantable Wedding Favors!

Wedding favors are tough: you want to give something meaningful but it can't be expensive. The last thing you want to do is clutter up your guests' lives with some tchotchke that will collect dust or be thrown away. These plantable wedding favors are a sure solution.

Made from 100% post-consumer waste and embedded with wildflower seeds, the favors recycle themselves by growing wildflowers right from the paper. Your guests can plant these seeds in their own yard, in a pot, or toss them along the highway to beautify our roadways. No waste + continued enjoyment.

The tree of life design is modern and appropriate for Jewish weddings.

Personalized and at $1.50 each, these Tree of Life Plantable Wedding Favors fit the bill and the earth!

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Presenting: Liza Shtromberg's Handmade Hebrew Jewelry

Moderntribe Jewish Gifts is proud to bring modern design to Jewish weddings with Liza Shtromberg's hand-stamped handmade Hebrew jewelry.

Liza's Hebrew collection was born out of her longing for Israel, where she spent her formative years and which shaped the foundation for her beliefs and value system. Recently, she spent two years living in Israel with her Japanese husband and her daughter. Upon her return to Los Angeles, the Hebrew collection became an expression of Liza's connection to Israel and the Jewish community.

The I Love... Personalized Hebrew Necklace may help a bride remain sane and a groom from going wild as their pendants engraved with each others Hebrew names serve as a reminder to the love that has brought them together. A perfect engagement gift, wearing the Jewish jewelry engraved with the spouse-to-be's name may keep the bride calm on her search for the perfect dress and serve as a gentle reminder to the man of the hour at his Vegas bachelor party.

Also available from Liza is this stunning, sleek but organic looking, sterling silver Ani L'Dodi V'dodi Li ring in Hebrew: I Am My Beloved's, My Beloved Is Mine, the classic lover's line from the Song of Songs (the Song of Solomon).

ModernTribe loves bringing you design-forward & Indie Modern designed Hebrew jewelry. Please make us your place for Judaica & Jewish gifts!

Thursday, May 27, 2010

DIY Jewish Wedding Invitations by Lucy Foley Exclusively at ModernTribe.com

Moderntribe Jewish Gifts is proud to bring modern design to Jewish weddings with invitations with our DIY Jewish Wedding Invitations by graphic designer Lucy Foley exclusively on Moderntribe.com.

Each of the three design templates: star, tree and dove - are unique interpretations of Jewish motifs that can be downloaded by the DIY bride to make everything from invitations to place cards to menus. The editable templates include matching invitations, RSVP cards, place cards, favor tags, table numbers, program/menu, accommodations, and directions cards.

All that is required to make your Jewish wedding stationary is a computer, printer, and your chosen paper. Download the templates, edit the text, including the font type & color, and print.Instructions are included and we are here to help if you need us!

Monday, May 17, 2010

The Great Oath -- Shavuot 2010 -- A BFD

You thought the festivities ended with the Passover seder? Naw! Observant Jews anticipate the anniversary of G-d giving Moses the Torah by Counting the Omer and then celebrate Shavuot.

Passover, which celebrates the Exodus from Egypt, is just the beginning! Observant Jews count the
49 days between the Exodus and receiving of the Torah and call this The Counting of the Omer. This counting is sort of like counting down the days until your birthday or seconds until the new year (but Jews always count UP -- in anticipation of greater-ness).

The counting ends on the Jewish date, 6th of Sivan, and then Jews celebrate Shavuot, the Oath, which this year begins sundown, Tuesday, May 18th 2010. It is written in the Torah that on this day the Jewish people received the Ten Commandments from G-d at Mount Sinai and made an oath of loyalty to One G-d. A BFD, if there ever was one.

Customs include (from Wikipedia article on Shavuot):

  • אקדמות – Akdamot, the reading of a liturgical poem during Shavuot morning synagogue services
  • חלב – Chalav (milk), the consumption of dairy products like milk and cheese
  • רות – Ruth, the reading of the Book of Ruth at morning services
  • ירק – Yerek, the decoration of homes and synagogues with greenery
  • תורה – Torah, engaging in all-night Torah study.
Learn more about Shavuot from Katrien Vander Straeten from Suite 101.

The Origins of Jewish Shavuot

by Katrien Vander Straeten

On the 50th day after Passover the Jewish people celebrate Shavuot, a two-day festival that commemorates the revelation of the Torah to Moses on Mount Sinai. Shavuot falls on 6 and 7 of Sivan. Some Jews celebrate it only on 6 Sivan.

Many names

The multi-faceted festival is called by many names:

  • Feast of Weeks (Hag ha-Shavuot) (cf. Exodus and Deuteronomy)
  • Festival or Reaping (Hag ha-Katsir) (Exodus)
  • Day of the First Fruits (Yom ha-Bikkurim) (Numbers)
  • Atzeret, which means “solemn assembly” (Mishnak and Talmud)
  • Festival of the Giving of Our Torah (Hag Matan Torateinu)
  • Day of the Great Oath

The first Christians called it “Pentecost”, which (in Greek) means “the fiftieth day” (after Passover). The Christian Pentecost, however, is celebrated on another day (on the seventh Sunday after Easter).

The Revelation to Moses

Shavuot is foremost the commemoration of the day the Jewish people were given the Torah.

On the night of Pesach or Passover (when the tenth plague of Egypt “passed over” the houses of the Israelites), the Jews left on their exodus (Greek for “departure”) east, from Egypt to Canaan, the Promised Land. They were led by Moses.

49 days later, that is, on the 50th day, they stopped at Mount Sinai. These 49 days are still counted by the Jewish people in “the Counting of the Omer”. Moses went up the mountain and there was given the Torah. Jews (as well as Christians) accept that G-d himself communicated it directly and literally.

The Torah: 5 Books, 10, or 613 commandments?

What was the Torah that was given to Moses?

Usually the Torah or the Law of Moses (“Torah” is Hebrew for “teaching” or “law”) means the first 5 Books of the Tanakh or Hebrew Bible, or of the Old Testament of the Christian Bible. For that reason it is also called the Pentateuch (Greek for “5 containers”). They are written in Hebrew:

  1. Genesis
  2. Exodus
  3. Leviticus
  4. Numbers
  5. Deuteronomy

However, this “Written Torah” can’t be the Torah that was given on Mount Sinai, because the book of Exodus narrates the event of revelation.

Rather, Moses was given the “Oral Torah”: 613 commandments (248 positive and 365 negative ones), as well as an explanation of how to fulfill them. These weren’t written down until nearly half a century later, in the 5 books of the Written Torah. The belief is that Moses wrote them down on a scroll just before he died, just before the Hebrews entered the Promised Land.

Another belief is that G-d said them to Moses simultaneously, in which case the question whether they were 613 or 10 becomes irrelevant. The idea is that all 613 commandments are included in the Ten Commandments.

The oath of the entire Jewish people

Another question is whether God gave the Torah just to Moses or to the entire Hebrew people present at Mount Sinai, some 3 million. Popular misconception (strengthened by Hollywood movies) holds that Moses was the sole recipient, but Moses himself, in the Written Torah, claims the latter.

Once the people heard (or rather, saw) the revelation, they all took an oath of eternal loyalty to G-d. That is why Shavuot is also called the “Day of the Great Oath” (“shavuah” means “oath”).

Older than Moses

Shavuot may go back even further than Moses. The book of Jubilees (6:15-22 and 44:1-5) describes it as a feast for the appearance of the first rainbow on the day G-d made the covenant with Noah. After Noah it was forgotten, to be restored by Abraham (Jub. 15:1), to again be forgotten again until Moses restored it, again.

A pilgrimage and harvest festival

Shavout is one of the three Biblical pilgrimage festivals (to Jerusalem) that are mandated by the Torah (the others are Passover and Sukkot).

Connected as it is to the Counting of the Omer, which refers literally to the harvest (an “omer” is a measure of grain), Shavuot too is a harvest festival. It is called the “Festival of the First Fruits” (Hag ha-Bikkurim) because it celebrates the harvesting and offering in the Temple of the first fruits.

Friday, April 30, 2010

An Open Letter to Joshua Venture: Doing Jewish Ritual is Being Jewish

I submitted ModernTribe to Joshua Venture this year. We made it through the first stage but got cut before the interviews.

There are likely many reasons why we are not a good fit for Joshua Venture. Looking at the recipients versus ModernTribe is like an easy game of "which one of these is not like the other?"

Joshua Venture gave me feedback on my application today and what direction ModernTribe should go in to make a social impact. I'm sharing this feedback and my response because I believe the it reflects a misunderstanding about Judaism, human behavior, psychology, Jewish identity, and what we do here -- big picture "do" -- at ModernTribe.

Here is the substantive part of the feedback from Joshua Venture. The emphasis is mine.
Innovative Jewish products have the potential to resonate with consumers in a new and exciting way, but their long-term effects can be difficult to measure. The educational component alluded to in your application was intriguing; however, readers were looking for more substantive demonstration of what this may look like or how it could contribute to Jewish identity-building. If the ultimate goal of selling contemporary Judaica is to achieve social impact, then we encourage you to further develop and optimize the educational piece of your venture.
And my reply (names removed)
Thank you!

I appreciate your feedback.

Just one counter point I'd like you to consider about the long term effects of making Judaica exciting, desirable, and fitting for a broader reach of people, that the effects of such are "difficult to measure," and that the educational piece is necessary to achieve social impact. I disagree.

An important component of Judaism is doing. So if a Jewish family lights shabbat candles, hangs a mezuzah, hosts a seder, does havdalah, lights the menorah -- they are being Jewish -- they are practicing Judaism. They are behaving Jewishly. Providing ritual items that people want, enjoy, display, and use is an end in itself. Just like providing a meal to satisfy hunger is an end in itself.

Are there other, farther reaching long-term effects one could measure (such as a stronger Jewish identity)? Of course! I'm a psychologist: if there is one thing we know is that behavior both affects and reflects beliefs. But, I argue, especially in Judaism where action is more important than beliefs, more people using Judaica = more people being Jewish = end in itself, period.

Just like one wouldn't say to a food bank-- yes, you gave out 4500 meals this year -- but what is the long-term effect of those meals? Are people really less hungry, more nutritionally healthy? Of course they are.

If more people are buying, enjoying, displaying, and using more Judaica, are they really more Jewish? Of course they are.

ModernTribe's ultimate goal of selling contemporary Judaica is to achieve social impact: and we are already achieving it.

Thank you again for the feedback. Even though I don't agree, it shows that I didn't do a good job of explaining the link between practicing Jewish rituals and being more Jewish.
I got an immediate reply with an explanation that food banks are amazing and necessary but it's a band-aid fix -- maybe what ModernTribe is doing, by inspiring more Judaica and Jewish themed "stuff" is an immediate fix but not systemic? Here is my reply:
If the systemic change desired is stronger Jewish identity then more people buying, enjoying, displaying, and using more Judaica, achieves this systemic change too.

What psychologist would debate otherwise? In fact, I bet "lighting shabbat candles" is a measure of Jewish Identity on many surveys. What a great operational definition of Jewish Identity!

Unlike food that is "consumable," and in a few hours later, one is hungry, the deliverable of ModernTribe is durable (yes, the object is durable, but I don't mean that): behavior affects beliefs in durable ways. Lighting shabbat candles "stays with you" -- in a psychologically understood way.

Maybe the real issue is that the Jewish Identity ModernTribe supports is in home (vs. community) and centered around ritual practice (vs. ethical)?

Community and ethics are important (and sexy!). But, I'd argue in home ritual practice is a necessary (but insufficient) part of Jewish Identity. I also argue it is more necessary (for Jewish Identity -- not in an absolute sense) than feeding the hungry, organic farming, meditating and art. I know that may make you wince. But please consider that it may be more necessary for Jewish identity: to continue being Jews, not just good people. Plus, this necessary part of Jewish identity will not be championed outside the Jewish community, ever: there will never be secular organizations exciting American Jews about Judaica. It is only something that Jews will do for Jews.
What do you think? Am I full of sh*t, on target, or meh?

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Shopping Online Can Be A Greener Way To Shop

Besides the fact that your shopkeeper's commute is carbon-footprint free (I work from home), there are many ways in which shopping at ModernTribe.com (or any online shop) could be more environmentally conserving than shopping at a "brick & mortar" store.
  1. Transport is pooled, saving on gas and emissions. Unless you walk to shop, one person driving to a store -- or multiple stores, perhaps -- is less efficient than using what Planet Green calls, "a well-organized carpool for your goods." Chances are the mail person, as well as Fed Ex and UPS are driving past your house everyday anyway.
  2. Less "security" plastic is needed. Besides being aggravating as all get out, the hard plastic security/display packaging you see on many goods is not necessary for us. Sometimes we can't get an item packaged differently, but other times we are able to buy items not packaged for "display" and therefore, better for the earth & your sanity.
  3. We have a warehouse instead of a store. Brick & mortar stores need to be lighted and air-conditioned with a low occupancy rate per square foot (lots of room, few things and people). Warehouses maximize storage and are bare-bones spaces... and in our case, is my basement -- which would be there, warehouse or not.
Furthermore, we make other choices in how we run our business that are more environmentally friendly:
  • We pack our shipments in recyclable packaging and re-use packaging when we can. We pack mostly with corn-starch peanuts and paper in recyclable cardboard boxes. The packaging we can't reuse, we recycle including boxes and ink cartridges.
  • We strive for a paper-free office, conducting almost all of our business online -- banking, buying, bill paying (but this is mostly because no one here is willing to file).
  • Our gift boxes and wrap are made from partially recycled content and can be recycled after use too!
We care about conservation like we know you do. Shalom, love, and happy Earth Day!

Friday, March 26, 2010

Best New Passover Videos & One Rap About The 10 Plagues

Here is my roundup of the best new Passover videos and a new song, all new for Passover, 2010. Passover begins Monday night, March 29th. Happy Passover Seder, ya'll!

Enjoy the Passover videos and one rap about The 10 Plagues by Bible Raps.

The Macaroons - Matzoh Ball (Don't Kick It)

Our friends at JDub Records have signed their first children's music band: The Macaroons.



Matzo Ball Olympics

From the brilliant guy at Jewish Robot



The Passover Seder With The Four Sons

From G-d Cast








The 10 Plagues by Bible Raps

We love these guys! Check out more at BibleRaps.com

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Friday, March 19, 2010

Mamalah's Four Cups Giveaway Is Coming Monday

Monday, March 22 will begin the Mamalah's Four Cups Giveaway on Pop Judaica's Blog. Be sure to check in Monday on Pop Judaica's Blog.

One lucky winner will win the following gifts:

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

How About A Red Seder?



Red is always hot but it's really in style this Spring as illustrated by the number of red table accessories popping up in stores everywhere. Inspired to create a red seder setting for Passover this year? ModernTribe has the red you need.

All are from Israeli designers

Clockwise

Friday, March 12, 2010

Haggadahs for The Wise, The Wicked, The Simple and Those Who Don't Know How To Ask


I've been looking for a perfect Haggadah. As the buyer for ModernTribe.com, months ago I'd gathered a dozen samples trying to find one or two to offer to my customers. As a rule, I won't sell something I wouldn't recommend to a friend. After reviewing the samples, I chose no Haggadot to sell on ModernTribe. Harsh, huh?

But then I had to choose a Haggadah for our seder, remembering last year's choice was entirely disappointing. I again looked through my stockpile. I chose four.

As is true at many seders, our guests were diverse in age and religious backgrounds. There was me, my athiest-believing-but-Jewish-living husband, my Reform Jewish parents, my four year old daughter, and a Christian friend. Since one of the most important purposes of the seder is to pass-on the story of the Exodus to the younger generation, I tried to gear the seder simple, light, and short, as is shrewd when you are passing-on to a four year old. At the same time, I wanted the seder to be meaningful and fun for the adults as well as informative for my friend for whom this was her first seder.

It wasn't until we got to the section on the Four Sons that I realized how well the four Haggadot I'd chosen fit with each of the four "personalities" or "dispositions" discussed during the seder and, to a degree, present in each of us.

For The Wise Within Us: we used A Family Haggadah II by Shoshana Silberman. This was our grown-up Haggadah which we used to stay in "order" and gain insight and depth when needed.

For The Wicked (Funny): we had Bangitout's Seder Sidekick. The comedic interludes made the adults laugh out loud (while our daughter played with her Ten Plagues Bowling Set). We especially enjoyed the Top 10 lists in David Letterman style.
For Our Simple Sides: we read from Richard Codor's Joyous Haggadah:A Children and Family Cartoon Haggadah for Passover Seder. This comic book style Haggadah is fun and colorful. It covers all the bases but in a very basic way.

For The Child Who Doesn't Yet Know How To Ask: we had Passover by Miriam Nerlove, a nicely illustrated book that explains the seder and the Exodus for young children. My mom showed our daughter the pictures as we discussed the Exodus events.

What a wonderful: wise, wicked, simple, and illustrated seder we had! I realized that as our child grows and as our guest list changes our seder and, therefore, our idea of a "perfect" Haggadah will change. I now understand there is no one "perfect" Haggadah, instead we will have to "blend" to create our own perfect-for-us mix.

If you click on the links for the Haggadot listed here you can buy them on Amazon.com.

Monday, February 15, 2010

Purim Giveaway on Pop Judaica Opens Tuesday, Feb 16

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Venetian Masks For Purim

Venetian Masks For Purim
At LimmudLA this week, I did an acting workshop where I was asked write and act a scene where I play Esther as Sarah Jessica Parker would play her. Esther was on a date with Isaac (as played by John Meyer). Talk about hiding identity!

Hiding our identity by dressing in costume is a way for us to experience the Purim story. The story is chock full of people mis-representing themselves and concealing their true identity. Esther is the major incognito who conceals her Jewishness from the King and becomes Queen. Of course, later she reveals she is a Jewess to save her people from Haman's plot to kill the Jews. Other cases of mistaken identity include Mordecai (Esther's Uncle and informant) hiding his language abilities and thus eavesdropping on the plot for Jewish extermination; Mordecai was able to listen with ease because the conspirators felt free to discuss: they thought he didn't know their language. Then Haman (the King's right hand man and striving Jew killer) is mistaken for Mordechai and thus, as it's discussed in the Talmud, Haman's daughter dumps her chamberpot on top of her own father's head! Oops. Shakespeare must have gotten his inspiration from the Purim Megillah.

This is why we dress in costume for Purim. Two years ago we started selling Venetian masks as an adult costume for Purim because Italian Jews, in the middle ages, were the first to adopt the custom of dressing in costume to celebrate Purim. The Italian Jews were inspired to wear costumes by the Roman Carnival, naturally. But the custom spread and stuck, likely because it is so appropriate for The Festival of Lots.

Wikipedia has a great page on Purim: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Purim

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Open E: Thank You For Helping Build Our Progressive Jewish Gifts Shop

It's nearing the end of January and I'm just now recovering from the Hanukkah season. Phew. With the last minute acquisition of Pop Judaica right before the Holiday season, it was a wild ride.

First and foremost, I want to express my gratitude toward our employees. ModernTribe could not have made it without Tiffany, Patrick, and Bart and I am eternally grateful for their magnificent loyalty and dedication. I'm not exaggerating: there were many days when they worked until midnight getting packages out and doing all the hundreds of things it takes to make this business run.

Thank you, customers, business partners, friends and family for helping us move forward toward our goal of providing identity-strengthening Jewish products. We grew significantly in our quest to make Judaica fresh, exciting and accessible to youthful Jews and to those not necessarily religious or traditional. There were also many set backs, but lessons are learned and thankfully our diversity of strengths help us bounce back from our mistakes and losses.

We found wonderful partners in the Jewish community, special thanks to: Limmud South East, Lisa Alcalay Klug, Jewlicious/ JConnectLA, Jewish Woman International and Meredith Jacobs, Jewcy.com and JDub Records. All of these organizations (people, in case of Lisa) are stellar contributors to Jewish American culture and wonderful friends of ModernTribe. We look forward to strengthening our bonds as we continue to grow.

Of course, thank you, thank you, thank you to our customers for whom we exist. We served thousands of you this year and, we hope, most of you have been thrilled with your purchases and customer service from ModernTribe. Thank you for your emails and phone calls of praise and also of criticism. Yes, we've made some mistakes: sent the wrong package, inadvertently mis-represented an item on the website, failed to meet your service expectations, and others. We take our mistakes seriously and are always working to improve our processes so that we can reduce human-error. Also, one thing you should feel secure about: if we make a mistake we will always do whatever we can to make things right for you. Thank you for your continued support and patronage.

Finally, and most importantly, thank you to my husband, Webb Roberts, whose unyielding support is, at times, so overwhelming it makes me want to cry. He not only has allowed us, as a family, to take significant (scary) financial risks, but listens and discusses the big issues (and the insignificant rabbit holes I sometimes fall into) with patience and wisdom.

Shalom to all. We look forward to 2010.

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